Halo... es ist schon sehr spät, aber ich kann nicht schlafen, vielleicht habe ich zu viel im Kopf... Ich habe noch ein Paar Emails geschrieben, und mein Blog gelesen.
Ich habe gerade eine alte Mitteilung im meinem Blog gefunden, vom November 2004. Sie ist über Selbständigkeit und Zufriedenheit. Ich finde das sehr schön.
Deshalb habe ich die noch mal in dieser Mitteilung kopiert…
(I know I made lots of mistakes… :D Just don’t laugh at me, okay?!)
Just a thought that came up today… hope this thought can remind me later on in my life…A lesson learned today. Don’t you ever rely your happiness on anyone, whoever he/she is for you. Don’t you ever look for happiness in anyone, cause happiness comes from inside you…Don’t you ever let anybody have the power to control your feelings…You have the total control of yourself, not any other person. You can make yourself feel happy, sad, lonely, disappointed, etc… depending on your own decision…When you are sad, tired, and full of problems, don’t expect (nor demand!) other people to comfort you… That will only make you feel disappointed and wounded. Especially when you found out that after you whined and spoiled all your troubles out, you didn’t get the reaction or the comfort that you’d expected…I should keep this in mind… even when I’m married someday… I should hold on to this… Achieve true independence, ndri!
P.S.
When you got no one to talk to, a blog is truly a good media to express yourself... :)
That's sort of the explanation on why I keep updating this blog almost everyday with not-so-important stuff, as probably some of you have noticed :)
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